I have been thinking a lot about raising kids right. With the right amount of discipline, choice and creating room for their individuality to develop. I am lucky enough to have had my adult kids come back to me to say that I raised them right and that I am a great mother. It really warms the heart!
You really know you've done a great job when they are there for you to help and support you when you need it the most. That is what is happening for me now with my fractured leg. My youngest son Beau and his partner Kat (luckily only live 30 minutes away), have been the ones to take me to every hospital appointment. They're regularly coming over to clean my house and picking up shopping and they won't take any money from us for their time and effort because they want to give back and be of use!
They're the ones having my latest grandchild and I am so happy that they have decided to live on our property. They will be right next door. A win win situation where we'll be able to help and support each other out. Beau and Kat will be able to help Imants and I to look after the land. I am so excited to be able to have regular contact with them all.
This has me thinking what are your thoughts on raising kids right? What stories do you have to share? Are there things that you would do differently? What advice would you give to those about to become new parents?